Breastfeeding Positions

Breastfeeding Positions Jan 05, 2021

Not Sure Which Breastfeeding Positions Are Best?

Breastfeeding is natural, but it does not always come naturally to a mother.

It is normal to feel a little overwhelmed and many mothers might feel uncomfortable the first few times they try to breastfeed their babies.

Finding the perfect breastfeeding position for you and your baby is very important.

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Laid-back Breastfeeding

The Best Position for Newborns

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Laid-back Breastfeeding

Breastfeeding may seem awkward at first, but you and your baby have instincts and abilities for birth and for breastfeeding. You need to trust yourself and know that breastfeeding has been done billions of times before.

Your baby's instincts and reflexes can help him crawl to the nipple and latch on all by himself. Reclining at a natural angle will be more comfortable for you and your baby. Your baby can now lie on top of you, his front on your front, with a blanket over the two of you for warmth. Now your hands are free to caress your baby.

The only things you need to make sure of is that you are completely comfortable and supported -  that your head, neck, shoulders, and body are not strained.

Usually, within the first hour, your baby will start to think about suckling. He may begin to drool or make sucking sounds or may bring his hands to his mouth. He may start bobbing his face on and off of your skin. You can help your baby to get closer to the breast or support him so that he can find his way.

The new feeling of having your baby on the breast may surprise you. You can breastfeed your baby as long as you both wish. Inside your womb, your baby was continuously fed via the umbilical cord, now outside the womb, your baby will be expecting frequent feedings to match. Therefore it is normal if your baby wakes up every now and then for feed, and dozes off during feedings. This erratic feeding is entirely normal and is precisely how a good milk supply is established.

Laid Back Breastfeeding Has the Following Advantages

  • There are no instructions to follow.
  • Gravity does some work for you, you don't have to worry about a specific breastfeeding hold.
  • Gravity brings your baby's head towards the breast instead of away from it.
  • Your bodies are touching each other, which triggers more instinctive responses.
  • Your baby will feel more secure against you.
  • You will be completely relaxed.
  • You have your hands free to stroke your baby or to do anything else such as read a book or drink a glass of water.

The Cradle Hold Breastfeeding Position

This position is best for the older baby, who already has control over head and neck movement, and who can latch on easily.

If you want to try this position with a newborn, you will need your baby’s head resting on your forearm; you will need to keep your baby close, with lots of skin on skin contact. The more common and easy breastfeeding positions for newborns are the football hold, and cross-cradle hold explained below.

Another way a mother can cradle hold a newborn while breastfeeding is with a sling or pouch, which is called the sling cradle hold. Learn more about babywearing here. Holding a baby in a sling is more convenient and much more comfortable.

Step By Step Cradle Hold for Newborn Babies

  • Make sure that your back is supported.
  • Put the base of your baby’s head in the crook of your arm.
  • Tuck your baby’s lower arm under his/her body.
  • Baby’s tummy should be against your tummy. His/her face and knees should be facing your body.
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  • Use a U hold (shown in the image) to hold the breast; when positioning your breasts, make sure that your fingers are not touching your areola; this is so that they do not get in the way when your baby is trying to latch on.
  • Tickle your baby’s lips and wait until he/she opens their mouth wide; then bring your baby to your breast (not your breast to your baby, this will cause neck and back pain for you).
  • Baby should have your whole nipple and a large part of your areola in their mouth.
  • Is my baby drinking enough?

Cross-Cradle Hold

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Cross Cradle Hold

The cross-cradle hold for breastfeeding allows a Mom complete control during breastfeeding. This position is used for the newborn and only until your baby has learned to latch on correctly.

Step By Step Cross-cradle Breastfeeding Hold

  • Use a breastfeeding pillow for support. The best ones to use for this are mentioned here.
  • Your arm should be supporting the length of your baby’s back.
  • Your baby’s head should be supported with your thumb and forefinger just behind the ears.
  • Baby should be held tummy to tummy. The importance of skin to skin contact explained here.
  • With your free hand, you must hold your breast in a U shape (making sure that your fingers are out of the way for a good latch-on)
  • Tickle baby’s lips with your nipple until he/she opens their mouth wide, then quickly push your baby's body towards you and latch on.
  • Baby should have all of the nipple and most of the lower areola in their mouth. Your nipple should be quite far back in your baby's mouth. If the latch feels uncomfortable or painful, you can break the seal by placing your fingers in the corner of Baby’s mouth and try again.
  • If your baby’s bottom lip is curled in, it sometimes helps to try to pull it out, for a better latch.
  • Do not try to make an air pocket on the top of the breast for your baby to breathe. Doing this can cause nipple pain. Babies’ noses are made especially for breastfeeding, and if your baby is struggling to breathe, he/she will pull off on their own.
  • If your baby is drinking well, with the cross breastfeeding hold, and your arm becomes tired, you can transition into the regular cradle hold shown above.

This Is a Great Breastfeeding Position for Mothers Who:

Football Hold Breastfeeding Position

The football breastfeeding hold is also referred to as the underarm hold or clutch hold. With this nursing position, you will be holding your baby on either one of your sides. This is a great position for Mothers who have just had a Cesarean section.

The breastfeeding football hold is also great for Mothers with large breasts, Moms with fast let down reflexes and those with premature babies. This position is usually used only until a baby is latching on well.

Step by Step Breastfeeding Football Hold

  • You will need a pillow to support your baby. Baby should be at breast height.
  • Tuck your baby in, under the same arm as the breast that is being fed to your baby.
  • Mom's forearm should be positioned up the length of her baby’s back.
  • Baby’s head supported by Moms thumb and forefinger, behind her baby’s ears.
  • Again, hold your breast with your other hand, in a U shape with your fingers away from the areola. (U shape example above)
  • Your baby should be resting on your forearm, tucked under your arm.
  • Latch your baby the same way as with the cross-cradle hold.
  • Make sure your shoulders and back are relaxed.

The Lying Positions

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Lying Down While Breastfeeding

The lying breastfeeding position is the easiest breastfeeding for many Moms. Breastfeeding while lying down, will allow you to sleep with their baby.

How It Is Done

  • Lie on your side and support your head and your back with pillows.
  • Lie your baby next to you, so that your tummies are touching. If your baby is still very young, you can place something behind his/her back to prevent your baby from rolling backward.
  • Your baby will be drinking from the breast that is against the mattress.
  • After your baby has securely latched on, you can use your lower arm to support your own head.
  • When you wish to give your baby your other side, you only need to cuddle him/her over your chest, and gently roll yourselves over.
  • This position is great for Moms who have had a C-section delivery.

More detail about nursing while lying down.

Saddle Hold

(Australian hold)

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Australian, Saddle Hold

The Saddle Hold is a fun way to nurse babies who are sitting up. It also works well if your baby has a runny nose or a sore ear. This is an excellent position for breastfeeding toddlers!

How It Is Done:

Have your baby sitting upright with his/her legs over your one leg.

More about upright breastfeeding positions.

Breastfeeding Twins

Try carrying both babies in a football hold at the same time.

More ideas for twin breastfeeding positions.

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Elsabe from South Africa, breastfeeding her twin babies.

These positions for breastfeeding can be modified for your own comfort, as long as it works for you and your baby. Find the best breastfeeding position for you.


Tracy Behr

A homeschooling mother of two, breastfeeding helper, and lover of all things natural!